Ellen Gould White
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Ellen Gould White über: "May a man pray together with a woman when they are not married?"
Answer
The provided quotations deal with the topic of spiritual union and marriage, especially the dangers of a partnership between a believer and a non‑believer, but they do not contain a direct statement about whether a man and an unmarried woman may pray together.
The Dangers of Partnership with Non‑Believers
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The plea is sometimes made that the non‑believer is friendly toward religion and everything one could wish for in a companion, except that – he is not a Christian. Although the believer's better prejudices may hint at the unsuitability of marriage with a non‑believer, nevertheless in ten out of ten cases the inclination will triumph. Spiritual decline begins the moment the vow is made at the altar; religious enthusiasm is dampened and one after another falls, until both stand under the black banner of Satan.«
The Role of Marriage in Spiritual Community
The existing quotations from Ellen G. White do speak generally about the significance of marriage and the dangers of partnership with non‑believers, but they contain no explicit statement about whether a man and an unmarried woman may pray together. It is recommended to adhere to biblical principles of separation and purity and, if necessary, seek further spiritual counsel.»
What could be more delightful to the divine will than to see those who fulfill the role of spouse together endeavor to know Jesus and become ever more of His Spirit?«
Original Sources (English)
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