Ellen Gould White
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Ellen Gould White über: "How should you deal with a toddler who has tantrums?"
Answer
When dealing with a toddler who throws themself down and screams, the quotations advise staying calm, not shouting at or punishing the child in anger, and, if the child is too young to understand, redirecting their attention as much as possible. Patiently teach the child self-control and set loving, consistent boundaries rather than giving in to every unreasonable demand. Also maintain regular habits; one quotation mentions unhealthy food as a possible cause of restlessness.
Stay calm and patient when the child screams
»I have often seen the little one throw himself down and scream when his will was crossed. This is the time to restrain evil tendencies and encourage the mind toward good. The child should learn self-control and be helped in every effort to control himself. Regularity should be the rule in all the children’s habits. Their restlessness may have been caused by unhealthy food that has not yet been digested. […] By scolding and even striking, they try to frighten the little ones into being quiet.«
Redirect very young children
»If they are too young to reason with, divert their attention as best you can; as they grow older, teach them by word and example not to give in to their unreasonable desires. Instruct them patiently. […] Never correct them in such a way that they think they are being punished in anger.«
Control your own voice and attitude
»The mother should have perfect self-control and do nothing that would awaken a spirit of defiance in the child. She should give no commands in a loud voice. She will accomplish much by keeping her voice calm and gentle. […] Her patience, kindness, and words of wise restraint have had their effect. After the storm, there is peace.«
Original Sources (English)
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